Amy . . .

What would you like to know? I am fun, but crazy. I have a most perfect husband, and 2 cats named Samson and Delilah. We are presently working on adopting a little girl from China and have a separate blog for that. I am a Christian and am working on a better relationship with him. I live in the Atlanta area and love sharing stories with people. I am also a pediatric nurse and I love it! I love to talk and meet new people and I love Disney Cruising

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Song lyrics

Someone told me to check out this song by country artist Josh Turner a few weeks ago and I just recently got it on ITUNES!!

I like the lyrics, what do you think??


He always wore those worn out flip-flops
Spent hours in his Daddy's workshop
He loved being on the water
Fishing with His friends
He always listened to the old folks
When they'd tell stories and crack jokes
Didn't talk back to his Mama
When she got onto Him

Oh, that's just the way He was raised
Had to finish all His chores 'fore He could go outside and play
They always went to church that's were he learned how to pray
And that's just the way He was raised

He grew His hair out when He got older
Grew it clear down to His shoulders
Started hanging with the outcasts
When He went off to town
Some called Him a troublemaker
Even some said a lawbreaker
No matter how they talked about Him
He never put nobody down

'Cause that's just the way He was raised
When people start to gossip, He'd just walk away
He always loved his neighbor no matter what they'd say
Oh, that's just the way He was raised

On a cross, on a hill
That longhaired boy was killed
All our sins washed away
When He walked out of that grave

Oh, that's just the way He was raised
There's no way we can measure
The sacrifice He made
He knew He had to die
For our debt to be paid
Oh, that's just the way He was raised

It took the hand of God to roll the stone away
And that's just the way He was raised
Yeah, that's just the way He was raised

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

You would think I would be more motivating

I have so much to do and in so little time. I do believe we will get it done and LynnMarie will be home in just a few weeks. Can you believe that???

My mind is going o fast that I cant get any of my thoughts out, go figure!!!!


God is good!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Reading

So I have 8 more shifts at until China or possible just 6 if I think I need the extra days to get ready that week. Scary isn't it?

We have lots to do but we will get it done.

Remember whey I went to see Beth Moore and Kay Arthur last summer? Something that Kay said has stuck in my head. Now, you have to understand that I love Christian fiction walls and I love love Contemporary Christian music. She warned us not to make that our quiet time with God. She said if I had time to read all the fiction and nonfiction Christian books, then I have time to spend in God's word so this week I have tried that. I am just about finished the Old Testament in my women's Bible Study but I have tried to do more that that.

I looked in the back of my Bible for things relating to peace and mind since that's what i have been struggling with and I quickly went to 1 Peter 4, particularly verses 1-7. I am not going to post the words but I hope you will go and read it!!!

What about you? Is there any scripture that's been on your heart lately?

To anonymous, hear ya go

Living for God
1Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because he who has suffered in his body is done with sin. 2As a result, he does not live the rest of his earthly life for evil human desires, but rather for the will of God. 3For you have spent enough time in the past doing what pagans choose to do—living in debauchery, lust, drunkenness, orgies, carousing and detestable idolatry. 4They think it strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation, and they heap abuse on you. 5But they will have to give account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead. 6For this is the reason the gospel was preached even to those who are now dead, so that they might be judged according to men in regard to the body, but live according to God in regard to the spirit.

7The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled so that you can pray. 8Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 9Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. 10Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms. 11If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.
Suffering for Being a Christian
12Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. 13But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. 14If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. 15If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler. 16However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name. 17For it is time for judgment to begin with the family of God; and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the gospel of God? 18And,
"If it is hard for the righteous to be saved,
what will become of the ungodly and the sinner?"[a]

19So then, those who suffer according to God's will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

We are going to China in less than a month. My mind is going crazy. God has been busy as he has opened door after door since November..

10 more shifts until China. How much does that rock???

Got to the gym early, it was quiet and I only turned some of the lights on. My goal was 4 miles on the treadmill but dang my legs starting hurting so I stopped and did the elliptical. Hopefully 4 miles again on Monday!!!


Ok, what are you guys reading?? Anything good?? More book reviews coming up by the way!!


Amy

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

craziness

I called work to tell them the tentative date of when we would be going to China. They wanted to know how long I wanted off..Maternity leave...crazy!! haha!!

For more info on our travel, visit www.thechristopherfamily.blogspot.com

Monday, February 16, 2009

missing God

I have to be honest. I have been fighting Satan for a while. I do think he is trying to rob me from my joy and steal my peace. I have just been worrying lately ALL of the time. I have been worrying about things I can not control and its consuming my thoughts.

The adoption-not worried at all. Beyond thrilled to get LynnMarie in my arms.

I guess I feel inadequate. I am not giving 100% again and I am not glorifying God in all I do, and yes that is my goal. I have not been good at eating, I could be exercising more, I could focus on cleaning on home and getting more organized. These are the things I need and want to do but instead I do whats comfortable. I want to be a better friend. I have been blessed by many friends who have just been so generous lately.

I miss my quiet time with God. I have not been having it and I really miss it. I miss moments where He just speaks to me. I am just not quiet anymore. I miss that intimate relationship that He desires so much. I miss spending time in His word because I always learn when I am studying.

I fear. I fear a lot of things and that takes away peace. I fear the world we live in. I fear some of the decisions the President has already made. I fear sharing my opinion. I fear what others can do to our country. I fear those of us who are believers not taking a stand for what we believe in. I fear not being satisfied with what I have. I fear not having these feelings. I fear not giving. I fear making decisions based on what is comfortable and not what God desires of me, even when it is heavy on my mind.

Nope. I am not depressed. Just sorting out some feelings and emotions.

Anyone else feel like this?Because apparently admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

How do you give

We had a great small group last night as we are working on an Andy Stanley video series. One of the questions that came up was tithing and giving?

What are your thoughts?? Do you give the 10% that is mentioned in the Bible? Do you give more so that you are able to be stretched by God. Do you give as a form of worship or because its a requirement?

I want to give more. Not just money to the church, to others in need, whether its time or money to others. Do you think God is concerned more about the actual amount of money or what your heart is doing?

It was a great conversation and I heard several points of views.. I just want to give. There will always be people in need who have less than me. As much as I love to be comfortable with "things", I'm ready to be different.

How are you giving???

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Hello, my name is Amy

Hello my name is Amy and I come here to confess. You see i have a problem. I like to read blogs. Ok, please do not judge me on the following information. I use bloglines to keep me up to date with my blogs. My bloglines currently has 903 blogs on there. I keep adding blogs so that I won't miss anything. That's my personality. Now, its time to clean up the bloglines. I read all types of blogs, adoption ones, ones on weight loss, people who work in the Christian music industry and most are just regular personal blogs. I will be deleting a large amount of blogs..

So, if you read my blog, comment a lot and have not received a comment from me, let me know. I do want to return the favor. My goal is to cut the amount of blogs by half tonight and by the rest of the weekend, another half..

I did not realize I had a problem but seriously 900 blogs is just a little too much, dont ya think???

Monday, February 09, 2009

Emotions

I'm about to post on the adoption blog but thought I would update here.

Nothing new. I'm still me. Still trying to get up to 5 miles on the treadmill before China.

I think God's working in my head and heart right now because I have the craziest thoughts going on.

Emotionally I am experiencing fear,joy,hope, excitement,anticipation and other things.

perhaps its my age, but I am questioning a lot of things. Maybe I am not questioning, just sorting out things. So if you could, please pray for a sense of peace to take over me.

Those of you who have read this blog for a while or know me, I hope know that I am a Christian, a God follower. I have known God my life and have trusted him for as long I have know. I know that his plans are much bigger than mine will ever be and I prefer his plans over mine, no matter how long it takes.

Recently, I have been wondering if I have got it all wrong. Not the God thing, I fully believe He is the creator of the Universe and knows me inside out. I do know that judgement will come when I experience earthly death. I know that God has promised some great things and I know that I am not worthy of it. But I am not sure I am living the way I need to be. Maybe I am praying the wrong way, I don't know. I hope this is just a phase. I truly hope to become the woman God created me to be. I am not giving as much as I do. I have not made the best decisions regarding money. Here is my problem. Those are commandments in the Bible. Its a simple one, not hard to understand. God also asks us to help orphans, widows, the poor and the needy. I am not doing that. I am frustrated, do you ever get that way??

Ugh....I have some changing to do

Sunday, February 08, 2009

my brother the grammy nominee

Back to a normal post tomorrow but just in case you watch the Grammy's tonight and the song Paperplanes by M.I.A wins record of the year, look for my little brother on stage. he produced it so he is also nominated...Woo Hoo, my parents and brother are at the Grammy's now getting ready!!!!

Friday, February 06, 2009

some more random thoughts

Impending parenthood-totally rocking my world in ways I could not imagine. I can not believe we are weeks away from meeting our daughter

The world has been scaring me lately. Not in a bad way but as a reminder not to put my hope in one man or others around the world. The only One who can give me the peace I need is my Heavenly Father and I need to constantly remind myself. I am surprise and disappointed in the behavior and decisions of Washington. Not necessarily the President, but just things I am reading and listening. Life is so precious and we really need to protect those who can not protect themselves.

Orphans- I do not like that word. When I hear how other children are living around the world, I remind myself of how blessed we are are and how we need to be giving more, even now, when money is tight. There are little children who don't have clothes, don't have clean water and sometimes only get one meal a day, if thatThey have never seen a toy. Some moms can't even breastfeed because they themselves do not have the nutrients. I don't know why this is on my heart tonight. We have it soooo good here. We forget what we have. I hope we have the opportunity to serve in some way while in China. As I read on a friends blog, we will soon have little eyes watching us and I really want her tosee us giving. I want that to be a natural part of our lives..

back to pondering

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

PICS UP

Ok, I finally got the pics up from our birthday trip to Disney and the baby shower. Unfortunately We cant get Michaels pics off his memory card, so we will make due with mine. Go visit www.thechristopherfamily.blogspot.com to see them!!!!

Monday, February 02, 2009

So, I am home, playing online and watching My Best Friends Wedding..


I did do 3 miles on the treadmill and yes, my legs are still wobbly. Church was awesome yesterday and the sermon will probably stick with me for a while. They will have it up online so head over to www.northmetro.org to listen later on.

We watched the Superbowl with some friends from our Community Group and even though I really don't get football, that last quarter was really good. The commercials were ok, there were some that were not very family friendly and one really offended me. I think it was the flower commercial..Whatever.!! I also spent a lot of time with a friend talking about weight watchers, and she is such a great motivator.

Still getting ready for China. Saturday Michael and I cleaned up the master room and hopefully the nursery will get painted and new carpet this week!!! So life is busy but fun and I am learning how to finally organize things! haha!!!!

Just posted over at the adoption blog and if you want to be on Lynnmarie's email list just drop me a line at lovinglynnmarie@hotmail.com

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Meet my little friend Olivia

My friend Olivia was on the news. read the article and watch the video and may I warn you, get your tissues..

http://www.11alive.com/rss/rss_story.aspx?storyid=126347

Thursday, January 29, 2009

bullet posts

-So with 5-8 weeks until the Christopher family grows by one, changes are being made. I did 2.45 miles today on the treadmill and hope to hit the 3 mile mark on Monday, working towards my 5 mile goal. Michael has been working out as well and seems to enjoy it!!!!

-trivia last night, we won with a perfect score which scored us a free dinner next week!!!

-Weight Watchers- the scale did not like me yesterday but at least I had lunch with my friend Donna who got me out of denial

-I have a feeling the next 2 months are going to go by fast

-Work is good but busy. Ladies attempted to throw me a surprise shower but included me in the email invite. Its a good thing since I have plans that day. HAHA!! and I don't like surprises like that, totally makes me feel comfortable but how generous of them!

-Glad to be back at the Amazing Collection Bible Study. I love those girls and we studied Habakkukk yesterday and review Old Testament kings.

-I love Autumn the basset hound but she needs to quit a few behaviours before China

-loving the ITUNES songs some of your recommended, especially the Sanctus Real song. Its totally me right now!!!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Lots on my mind

Preparing for parenthood, organizing the house, getting healthier, working on finances, planning a trip to China is a bit OVERWHELMING but it will be okay.

First goal, walk 5 miles quickly on treadmill. Able to do 2 with no problem, will do 3 by Monday.

We got a crib. This is good.

Looking forward to my ladies Bible Study tomorrow. haven't seen them since Christmas and will miss them while we are gone.

WW tomorrow!!! Looking forward to it (not the weigh in, but the meeting and lunch with a friend)

Still having a hard time getting organized but whats new?

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Serving

Today at church we talked about serving. They shared stories of members of teams that served on short term mission trips during the past year.
I want to serve. I want to serve here in America. I really hope I am able to serve in China. Im getting more and more excited about that trip everyday. Its going to be amazing. I want God to give me a servant's heart.

I get so sick of being selfish and being in my comfort zone, yet I stay where I am. It gets frustrating.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

fabulous news

More posts to follow but we got the most awesome news today. We got our final approval from China which means we are going to China to get LynnMarie in the next 2 months!!!

YIPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

need 4 more songs

So today, I added some songs onto my IPOD from suggestions from a previous post, twitter and facebook friends. I come to you again. I need 4 more.

What do I like? Pop, country, Contemporary christian, songs that make me giggle, songs that make me cry.

Today I added some Phil Wickham, Sanctus Real, Big Daddy Weave and a few British artists..

I am ready to try some new artists. Can you help me out???

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

President Obama

Ok, so I did not vote for the man. I was not an Obama supporter. He has a lot of view and opinions that I disagree with. But as an American, I choose to support this man and his team. Complaining about what might happen isn't going to change anything and turning to fear doesn't help at all.

Regardless of your political views, I think we should all respect the office, his position and the fact that there is a beautiful family in the White House. The one thing that President Obama has done is give people hope and bigger dreams, and thats really a good thing. I will pray for this new President, his family, all of those surround Him. Thats the one thing we can all do together.

Complaining about the election, the new President,his views or his past isn't going to bring our country together, but just further drive us apart. I choose to support and respect him.

To end, I found the prayer that was used by Rick Warren during this historical day.

Let us pray.

Almighty God, our Father, everything we see and everything we can’t see exists because of you alone. It all comes from you. It all belongs to you. It all exists for your glory.

History is your story. The Scripture tells us, “Hear O Israel, the Lord is our God. The Lord is One.” And you are the compassionate and merciful one. And you are loving to everyone you have made.

Now, today, we rejoice not only in America’s peaceful transfer of power for the 44th time. We celebrate a hingepoint of history with the inauguration of our first African American president of the United States. We are so grateful to live in this land, a land of unequaled possibility, where the son of an African immigrant can rise to the highest level of our leadership. And we know today that Dr. King and a great cloud of witnesses are shouting in heaven.

Give to our new President, Barack Obama, the wisdom to lead us with humility, the courage to lead us with integrity, the compassion to lead us with generosity. Bless and protect him, his family, Vice President Biden, the cabinet, and every one of our freely elected leaders.

Help us, O God, to remember that we are Americans, united not by race, or religion, or blood, but to our commitment to freedom and justice for all. When we focus on ourselves, when we fight each other, when we forget you, forgive us. When we presume that our greatness and our prosperity is ours alone, forgive us. When we fail to treat our fellow human beings and all the earth with the respect that they deserve, forgive us. And as we face these difficult days ahead, may we have a new birth of clarity in our aims, responsibility in our actions, humility in our approaches, and civility in our attitudes, even when we differ.

Help us to share, to serve and to seek the common good of all. May all people of good will today join together to work for a more just, a more healthy and a more prosperous nation and a peaceful planet. And may we never forget that one day all nations and all people will stand accountable before you. We now commit our new president and his wife, Michelle and his daughters, Malia and Sasha, into your loving care.

I humbly ask this in the name of the one who changed my life, Yeshua, Isa, Jesus [Spanish pronunciation], Jesus, who taught us to pray:

“Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen."

Monday, January 19, 2009

the one where Amy posts about Diapers


So this weekend, we had shower number one and we got something I totally forgot about as gifts. Diapers. Now really diapers are just diapers but seeing packs of diapers did something to me. Its one of the basics for baby care. Seriously, diapers represents a lot. For someone who has waiting so long to be a mom, this made things real. I may be a bit crazy but there are just some things sometimes that remind you of what do don't have and whats waiting for you. To me some of those things are seeing Christmas cards with families on it and the the letters that go with them, hearing stories about birthday parties, seeing artwork on the fridge. Those are not things that make you a parent, but I look forward to those things more than you might know.

So, those 3 big packs of diapers we got this weekend meant more to me that those givers will ever know.

Friday, January 16, 2009

Martin Luther King


"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."Martin Luther King Jr.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

We are out of here

Heading to Florida one last time before China, visiting family and friends, having our first baby shower and spending our birthday (yes we have the same birthday) at the Magic Kingdom !!

Let the party begin!

Monday, January 12, 2009

waiting comfortably

I was thinking the other day. really, I was. I was thinking how comfortable I got during our wait for LynnMarie. Knowing that I had years to go, I didn't really do much to get ready. I almost put it the back of my mind. Almost like it wasn't going to happen.

But then, we got the phone call and it shook my world. The way that I think has changed. Some of my thoughts are a bit less selfish. I do feel like I have wasted some time. I should have done more during the wait. It was a wonderful opportunity to do some great things, and I missed a great opportunity.


This led to my thinking about my God and how comfortable I am right now. The way I am. I want to change but I don't want the process of change.I fear change. Does that make sense?? I don't want change to be uncomfortable. I know that in order to grow and change, sometimes it gets uncomfortable. I think that God sometimes allows change to change us and we have to be willing to go with the flow and trust that He knows whats going on.

SO I hope that in the next few months and as LynnMarie comes home, my fear of change will lessen. I pray that God helps me use my time wisely to become the mom and wife He created me to be.

Things are happening. Good things with a lot of surprises.

I don't want to waste my time and I don't want to miss an opportunity.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Good times

Tonight, we made a trip to visit our adopting friends Tiffany and Eric and had soooo much fun. She cooked a yummy dinner of chicken parm, salad bread and cheesecake. Oh it was soooo good!

Lots of good laughs, talks about China, adoption, life in general was included. I also got to watch the boys play some XBOX and Guitar Here. It was one of the best nights I have had in a long time.

I am thankful for new friends and what may come of it and I cant wait to celebrate our kids together!!!

Thursday, January 08, 2009

life verse

2 Timothy 1: 7
For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.

This was my choice verse back in middle school when I was terrified of everything. I had a real paranoia of speaking in public and other things. Seriously, a lot of times, my mind was consumed fear and being uncomfortable.

Now it takes on a whole new meaning. Funny,isn't it? That one verse can really mean so many different things in your life.Especially in the times we are in.

OK, Share. What's yours??

Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Ok, so if you are interested in being on the LynnMarie prayer/email list, email me at lovinglynnmarie@hotmail.com

Thanks for all of the wonderful words of encouragement

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Impending motherhood

That's a pretty scary concept!!!! I have learned so much by reading all of your blogs. I know I have asked this before, but what are some of your favorite things you do with your kids? What do you love about parenting? What are your favorite adoption/parenting/discipline/attachment books!!!

Come on, share your ideas with a soon to be mom who has no idea what she is doing!!!!

Saturday, January 03, 2009

My first post of the year and your resolutions

Greeting friends!!

If I am a regular reader of your blog and have not commented lately, be patient. I am trying to catch up!

Pending motherhood is a bit overwhelming, exciting, scary, time consuming and all around awesome! We have so much to do and discuss before we leave for China. Please keep us in your prayers.

Check out the adoption blog for videos of our daughter. That was a nice surprise today.

So how was every one's New Years. I want to hear what you are going to accomplish next year and will even check on you in 3 months to make sure you are doing it..


I want to love Jesus more and be a better example. I want to be a good mom, wife, sister and friend. In order to do that, I need to have better control over what i eat, my exercise habits, my organizational skills and I need to give A LOT MORE!!!!


Ok, its your turn, spill it
Come on spill it!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

pray for the Heil Family tonight

Today I had the opportunity to help watch one of friends daughter Ava. Ava's mom Katherine lost her sister Sunday night and was getting ready for her visitation. I did not realize that I had met her baby sister Victoria but apparently I had.

My heart is sad for this family. Not because I knew her, but because I know her sister. She is doing well. She told me today that God knows everything. He knows the hairs on our heads and our number of days. Not everyone gets to live to be 100. I accept this. Wow!! Her faith impresses me.

But then I started thinking, I do not want one friend or family member leaving this earth doubting my love. So one of my goals this next year is to love more, through actions, not by words.

I sat there and played with Ava, and just wondered whats going on her head. Will she hear stories of her aunt one day? I am sure she will.

I challenge all of you to love more. The economy sucks. Many of us can not afford a lot, especially expensive gifts. But we can love more. Its not that hard. I hope to find a lot of ways to show love this year.

Will I have resolutions this year? Of course but I have one main one and then it branches off. I want to be more like Jesus. What about you???

Monday, December 29, 2008

True Love - Phil Wickham

ITUNES HELP

Ok, gotta ITUNES gift card for Christmas and i need suggestions..Anything. Artist, song, whatever..

Here is my style.

Love CCM like SCC, MWS, Natalie Grant and so many others. CHurch has been playing a song called True Love during communion and it is stinkin amazing. I forgot his name but will find it later. The words are awesome.. I also love Mandisa. I am up for trying to stuff.

I also listed to some Top 40 and some country like Kenny Chesney, Rascall Flats, Carrie Underwood..

I love great lyrics that make me cry..


Go ahead.. Give me as many suggestion as possible!!!

8 Crazy's

My Friend over at Imagine Alyzabeth Anne tagged me a while ago and I thought I would go ahead and post before I begin some more serious posts like resolutions and stuff like that so here you go


8 Favorite Tv Shows

1.ER
2.Greys Anatomy
3,American Idol
4. Jon and Kate plus 8
5. The annual Duggar Family show
6. How I Met Your Mother
7. any Hallmark Christmas Movie
8. Private Practice

8 Things I am looking forward to

1. China Baby!!
2. Bringing LynnMarie home
3. Getting closer to God
4. Our first Disney Cruise with LynnMarie
5. Finally losing my 10% at Weight Watchers
6. Going to Florida for our birthday in 2 weeks
7. Adoption Option next Friday
8. Loving LynnMarie and my Michael every day

8 Things on My Wish List
1. Another Disney Cruise
2.Money for China Trip
3. New Carpet upstairs
4. New Paint Upstairs
6. New Front Door
7. debt free
8. not to stress

8 Things we did yesterday

1. Woke up
2. Drove separately to church since I had to work the nursery
3. had a frozen pizza for lunch
4. talked to the dog
5. started watching Get Smart
6. We both played on the Internet
7. We talked
8. We both went somewhere (me- work, Michael-play cards)

8 Favorite Restaurants
1.Cracker Barrel
2.O Charleys
3. Any Japanese steak house
4. Marietta Diner
5, Gondoliers
6. any take out Chinese
7. any take out Pizza
8. Chik Fil A




Friday, December 26, 2008

the day after

Wow.. Christmas is over.

Its been an interesting couple of days. Christmas Eve, Michael and I went to church ( and met Melanie there who had never been to our church) and then went home to our new tradition of a Chik Fil A tray of nuggets and strips. We also watched another Christmas movie as I was trying to squeeze in every Christmas movie I owned before Christmas.

Christmas Day was started with our traditional breakfast at Waffle House followed by gift opening and some resting. We ended the day with dinner with my FIL in Douglasville.


My thoughts this Christmas was strange. Gift wise?? It rocked.I got more than I asked for and hubby loaded me up with new scrubs,cds, dvds and luggage for our trip to China.

As we opened our gifts, I just felt sad. Was it because our LynnMarie was celebrating her first Christmas without us? I am sure that's part of it. I felt as though I had become part of the commercialized Christmas. I am spoiled. I got everything I wanted. I was still missing something. I missed the basics of Chrismas. Celebrating the birth of the one who changed my life. How do I not celebrate that every single day. I missed being with family. I am just tired of wanting more. But at the same time, I just don't feel like I am living my full potential. I think I am in some kind of rut and I hope I get out of it soon.

I hope 2009 allows me to live more simply to give more. I think that will make me happier. God has blessed me far more than what I deserve.

Even though those thoughts were a bit sad, if they happen to help change me this year, 2008 will have been one of my best Christmas's.

But dang, 2009 is going to rock!!!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas

I hope each and every one of you enjoyed making memories with your family today. May we remember that because God allowed Himself to come into our world in the way that He did is why we have the celebrations we have..

Remember to take a moment and reflect and this amazing gift..

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

the one you dont want to miss

If there were one blog post I would want you to see today..It would be over at the adoption blog. Seriously, you do not want to miss this one!.HINT HINT

Monday, December 22, 2008

i dont have a title

As cold as it was going to the gym this morning, I loved it Cold, sunny weather is awesome..Makes me feel just a little more like Christmas.

The past 2 weeks we have had a few friends over for dinner and a Christmas movie. I have really enjoyed this and hope to do this more in 2009, well, without the Christmas movie. I have enjoyed the fellowship and getting to know our friends a bit more.

We have also re-established our community group at church and I look forward to seeing what God has for us.

The Christopher's are also off to Florida in a few weeks for OUR BIRTHDAY. Yes, Michael and I have the same birthday and in case you did not know, Disney is giving everyone a free ticket on their birthday..Check out their website if you do not believe me. So score for us, this is a huge benefit for having the same birthday and we are both excited.

I am still trying to catch up on the many Hallmark movies I have on DVR. Sadly, I have had to delete some..

What are you up to??

Friday, December 19, 2008

Christmas tradtions

I stole this from Mrs. Ragamuffin Soul AKA Heather


Christmas Traditions, Part 2


1. Wrapping paper or gift bags?
Ok, wrapping paper because gift bags make you want to peak

2. Real tree or Artificial?
i will pre-lit artificial are not good, except for the first year when everything works. Doesnt matter to me

3. When do you put up the tree?
I try to do it as soon after thanksgiving depending on work schedule

4. When do you take the tree down?
as close to Jan 1st, once again depending on work
5. Do you like eggnog?
love it but have not had it this season

6. Favorite gift received as a child?
I had a China doll. Well, her head was China but my cousin Christy got on the top bunk and dropped her. I also had a Cabbage Patch Kid

8. Easiest person to buy for? dad, he always wants the staples, t shirts, dress shirts, socks

9. Do You have a nativity scene? yes Michael bought me one when he worked for Family

10. Mail or email Christmas cards? I always always mail and try to get some out the Wed before Thankgiving. I really want mine to be someones first Christmas card every year..I know I know, I am odd

11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? I don't have one. If I remember something I will come back

12. Favorite Christmas Movie?
Love Christmas Story, Grinch, Miracle on 34th Street, Christmas Vacation

13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? usually early in the morning and whenever money is available

14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? not yet but that may be changing

15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas?
egg nog (drink)

16. Lights on the tree? who doesn't?

17. Favorite Christmas song?
O Holy Night, Have yourself a Merry Little CHristmas, All I really want for CHristmas by SCC

19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeers? not at the present moment

20. Angel on the tree top or a star?
we have both somewhere but neither on the tree right now.,I would say angel though

21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Christmas morning, no cheating

22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year?
mean people stealing parking spaces

23. Favorite ornament theme or color?
red, I love anything that makes me think of family or memories

24. Favorite Christmas dinner?
Japanese Steak House

25. What do you want for Christmas this year?
gifts for LynnMarie, in the hope that she comes home this year

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Christmas movies

Ok so what are you must sees for Christmas movies every year????

Sunday, December 14, 2008

more random thoughts this holiday season

Its Christmas time and I love it!!!

This Christmas is different for so many people. Its a time of hardship and fear. Many of us have had to cut back this year, and in doing so, makes Christmas so much sweeter.

First of all, church on Sunday blew me away. From a power video, to hearing some much needed words, God's presence was just so clear.

I am not good with getting my thoughts out some time. I have to admit, sometimes I like the commercial side of Christmas. I have a list of things that I want each year. Sad, isn't it? No matter what our circumstances our this Christmas, we are beyond blessed.

My heart has been heavy over some things. At church today, I witnessed a mom struggle with some of her child's digestive issues and blaming herself because she had to go to a cheaper formula just to barely make it. Her husband had a massive heart attack just 2 weeks ago at the age of 40 and she is working 2 jobs. This woman still serves. Every Sunday, she teaches.

Last week on my floor, there were 5 new brain tumors diagnosed. I work on a 33 bed unit. 5 little brain tumors were diagnosed. 5 families are walking a new journey. 2 of those brain tumors are inoperable. Can you imagine what life is like with news like this?

This past year, is really the first time that I have ever really been fearful. Fearful of the future, the world we live in, fearful that my faith will not be as strong as I need it. Fearful that people do not see Christ in me. That is my biggest fear.

At the same time, this past year I have felt such amazing emotions for the first time. I have seen people give when they themselves have needs. To me that is just beautiful. I have seen humility that has made me want to be a better person. I have seen someone close to me have a HUGE change of heart.

I have seen dreams crumble, I have seen sadness. But I have also seen Hope.

One of these days, I will get so share some God moments over the past year that have brought me to tears. I can not deny that there is one true God that loves me no matter what I say or do. Its been an interesting year, a pretty rockin year. He has shown Himself to me through blogs, friends, and just circumstances. I am thankful for these God moments.

Certain songs help bring emotions out and this Christmas season is no different. I imagine Mary and Joseph in the stable, loving on that sweet baby boy, trying to protect a future king. Its a beautiful picture in my mind.

Have you heard the Casting Crowns Christmas CD? One of the songs has been on one of their older cds, but I wanted to share some lyrics that have gotten me thinking! The song talks about Bethlehem and what an amazing event took place while the city slept!


United States of America
Looks like another silent night
As we’re sung to sleep by philosophies
That save the trees and kill the children
And while we’re lying in the dark
There’s a shout heard ‘cross the eastern sky
For the Bridegroom has returned
And has carried His bride away in the night, in the night

America, what will we miss while we are sleeping
Will Jesus come again
And leave us slumbering where we lay
America, will we go down in history
As a nation with no room for its King
Will we be sleeping?


Are we just not getting it?? Am I personally too selfish that I am going to miss something?? I don't know. I do believe as a country, we have been running away from God but something tells me that there will be people running towards Him.


The more I think about this, the more sad I become. I do believe that I have disappointed my Creator. I am thankful for mercy and forgiveness.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

COMMENT GAME- christmas edition




Christmas EDITION
Here's how it goes: I'll start the game off at the bottom of this post by choosing two words or phrases, like coffee or tea, and which ever one you prefer you choose. You can also explain why. When you have done that you do two new words or phrases for the next commenter to choose from. Feel free to come back as often as you like. Just have fun and lets try to stick with the Christmas theme. If someone derails the game will one of you put it back on track? Thanks

Monday, December 08, 2008

1000th post

Wow!!! Thats a lot of posting. I'm not sure how much substance was in those posts but thats a lot of typing.
My 2009 resolution is one that I am starting now and I want your input. My goal as it should have always been is to live simply and give bigger.

Are you doing this?? How??? I want to quit "wanting". Ugh, I still want material things. I made a Christmas list. At the time, I did not feel guilty. But there are bigger things in this life. I want to know how to give more.

I think I will be doing a massive cleaning out of the house soon and hoping to have a lot of bags of donations. I believe we have found a place that can use financial resources, but more on that another time.

Live Simply. I heard an amazing speaker last Wed on this topic and it spoke to me. How can I do that?
Are we talking, no more appetizers when we go out to eat?? Don't laugh. My mind works in odd ways.

Are we talking no more going to the movies but rather have board game nights with our friends??

What are you doing in general to live simple???

Saturday, December 06, 2008

Amy Grant - Grown Up Christmas List

I think I will always love this song!!

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

My brother was nominated for a grammy

Seriously, more about him later but he produced a song called Paper Planes which is sung by a good friend of his M.I.A. and along with the artist who performs, the producer and sound engineer also get nominated

http://content.grammy.com/grammy_awards/51st_show/list.aspx

Look for the song and he goes by Diplo!!! We love M.IA too!!!

Congrats guys!!!!!!!

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Christmas

Most of you guys know I love memories and look forward to one creating special memories for Michael and I and any kids we have. I was blessed to have a family who gave me such memories.

Thanks Mom and Dad for everything you did to make sure we had a happy childhood. That was one of the best gifts you have ever given us!!!

When I think of Christmas, I think of Jesus, the manger, church, candlelight services, cocoa, looking at Christmas lights, fireplaces, good movies, the gift of giving to others, shopping, wrapping paper, smiles, Santa, cookies, stockings,!!


What things come to your mind when you think of Christmas???

Friday, November 28, 2008

Christmas Traditions

So what are some of yours??? Come on, I really want to know

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

happy thanksgiving everyone. i am thankful for so many things including those who have ever read or commented on my blog

Monday, November 24, 2008

COMMENT GAME


THANKSGIVING EDITION
Here's how it goes: I'll start the game off at the bottom of this post by choosing two words or phrases, like coffee or tea, and which ever one you prefer you choose. You can also explain why. When you have done that you do two new words or phrases for the next commenter to choose from. Feel free to come back as often as you like. Just have fun. If someone derails the game will one of you put it back on track? Thanks.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

its almost Christmas time

Can't wait for the season to officially be here. Michael and I have tried to do a Christmas party every this year but this year because of several reasons, we are going to do something different. We want some more personal times with our friends, so we are inviting people over for dinner and a Christmas movie on different dates.. So, if you live in Atlanta and want to come over and have dinner and some Christmas cheer, let me know!!!

everyone is on a budget this year, but i want to hear some creative, inexpensive ways to get into the Christmas spirit???? ideas???

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

randomness

If any of you know me outside my blogs, you will know my mind always has several things going on at one time. In fact, if my metabolism was as quick as the thoughts in my head, I would a lot skinnier. Nothing much going on. Have had a good couple of days at work, even when the 4yo sibling got her head stuck in a chair and we had to drill her out...(a whole other story)

so here is what is presently in my head. I am a people pleaser.I will do anything to get people to like me and to make people happy. This is not always a good thing. I am learning how to love who I am and not worrying about impressing others, which has always been one of my weaknesses. when you go so far away to make people happy, sometimes you sacrifice a lot of things and you can lose your self in the process.I want to be liked. i want to be cool. i have always wanted that but my fear is becoming snobby and thinking i am better than others. I despise that character trait and hope it never develops.

What do I want? i want to quit wanting material things and I want to just love. I want to love everyone unconditionally and sometimes it really hard.
this post was much better in my head before I started typing.

I am frustrated that I am not at my best. The One who created me deserves so much more than what I am giving that its shameful. like totally embarrassing. I am not worthy of the Love that covers me. That is what I want, to live life the best way possible. Physically, mentally, socially, spiritually. I am not there yet. I just think there is something wrong with me.. Ugh, I hate that feeling.

I love the season coming up. I wish I felt this way all year round. I find it to be a season of hope. A season to give and love. God chose to live among us through Jesus. I cant understand why that tiny baby grew up to die a painful death so that I might have a hope and a future. I am so not worthy of this gift and yet most of the time my life is not demonstrating how grateful I am. anyone else ever feel like this????

But it is the season of hope, love, family, joy and Christmas music....love it!!!!!!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Sunday

It's Sunday afternoon and we are watching a Greys episode. Enjoyed church today and I am looking forward to this series call ed 3:16. Today we heard about the history of the Bible. I got sent home from nursery duty as i am still not feeling well and have to go to church. One of my weight watcher friends who goes to my church came up to me and asked how she could pray for me in regards to weight watchers. We shared some info, but that meant a lot to me.

Yesterday we watched a football game at a local bar and then planned on going by Starbucks. We ended up going to Marlow's Tavern and spending a lot of time with some friends. It was so nice to spend time with such a cool couple!!!!!


I love my Michael. He played some Christmas music in the car and then loaded the cd player with Christmas tunes last night..

I know everyone says they love this time of year, but I really thrive on it...Yeah for the Holidays

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

friendship

So, its 2:33 a.m here at Scottish Rite and I have checked my children. They are really sleeping. Its calm and when its calm I start to think.

I love love love meeting new people which is why I so enjoyed the blog party and I hope to see some of those great people again. I hope some of them become great friends.

Do you ever just feel like you are not worthy? Worthy for friendship? you guys know that I struggle with jealousy. I meet so many people who I think are better than me. Some of those people help me want to be a better person. For that I am thankful. But there is still a part of me who knows I will never be good enough to be a friend of some people. I hate that I think like that. Its just part of who I have always been. I am working on this......I know that no one has it all together and the face that we are all different makes this world a sweeter place.
I am not the best friend to have. I love getting together with friends whether its walking or having lunch. I rarely invite anyone to do anything for a variety of reasons.

a) I hate people turning me down. Even if its a real excuse, I automatically take it personally. I really take a lot of things personally.
b) I don't like to call people because I really do not want to interrupt people during their personal time. Especially friends with kids, I am always afraid I am goin to wake someone up.

I know excuses excuses

Anyway, I hope to be a better friend in the next year. I have learned what amazing friends I have and that is scary. I actually have friends that I trust. I have friends that have demonstrated such love through gifts, words, time and prayers. I am beyond blessed. And then there are my blogging friends who have encouraged me through the blog and I hope to meet so many of you one day....

Still working on my address book for Christmas. regardless if you are a friend in my online world or not, I want to get your address..

Friends, Christmas is in the air and if you can remember last season, I am a Christmas girl.

There will be a lot of blogging in December..

Monday, November 10, 2008

pics up

Fyi- pics from the fabulous weekend including the basset bash and blog party are up at the family blog www.thechristopherfamily.blogspot.com

Sunday, November 09, 2008

13 more posts until my 1000th post-what should i do

If you are one of the cool people i met at the blog party last night, then hello! I had a blast and enjoyed getting to know so many of you. Some of you came up to me to say hello and that made my day. You made me feel cool, even if it was for just an evening..haha!!!!!

Everyone..... I am getting our Christmas card list together and i want to send one to you. So, send me an email with your name address, blog title and if you were at the blog party or if I know you some other way..(amyschristopher@comcast.net)

Fall days just make me happy!!!!!!!

and let me know if you are on twitter, come find me so i can follow you

10 ways to pray for our President

no this is not political. i got this from another blog i read, journey to isabella and thought i would share it over here.

10 Ways to Pray for Barack Obama

1. Pray for Obama’s protection:
We already know that some fanatics in Tennessee plotted to kill Sen. Obama during his campaign. Let’s pray that racist hatred is not allowed to spread. Let’s cancel every assassin’s bullet in the name of Jesus. May civility triumph over bigotry.

2. Cover his wife and daughters in prayer:
It is not easy to live under constant media scrutiny. Pray for Obama’s wife, Michelle, and their two daughters, Malia and Natasha, as they face invasive cameras, nosy reporters, maniacal fans and dangerous enemies. Obama is not only a politician but also a husband and a father.

3. Pray that Obama will govern with God’s wisdom:
God rewarded Solomon because he asked for wisdom instead of wealth, long life or vengeance on his enemies (see 1 Kings 3:11-12). Pray that Obama will order his priorities like that. Despite Solomon’s tragic character flaws, his legacy was wisdom. We can ask God to give our president the same grace.

4. Ask God to keep our president humble:
Many great American leaders became corrupt after they moved to Washington. The fatal attraction of fame, wealth and power proved irresistible. The only thing that will guard a man or woman from this pitfall is humility. May God deliver President Obama from the curse of pride.

5. Pray for wise and righteous advisers to surround him:
Godly leaders cannot do their job alone. Even the best leaders have failed because they trusted the wrong people. Pray that Obama will not select his counselors based on party, race, pedigree or political cronyism but on godly character and proven wisdom. Pray also that he will not allow secret traitors into his inner circle.

6. Ask for the spirit of reconciliation:
Some segments of our deeply divided society want nothing to do with Obama now that he has won the presidency. Even some Christians will be tempted to harbor resentment and nurse political grudges throughout his term in office. Pray that God will grant forgiveness and healing so that leaders on all political levels can have constructive dialogue.

7. Pray that Obama will adopt pro-life convictions:
Many politicians have changed their views on key issues while in office. In the 1800s some leaders who favored slavery later denounced it. In the 1950s some who opposed racial integration later became champions of it. Even though Obama won approval from many voters because he sanctions abortion, God could soften and change his heart.

8. Bind all evil forces assigned to manipulate our president:
The specter of Islamic terrorism looms over the United States, and dark forces are ready to infiltrate. Our only hope lies in prayer to the God who is able to expose and outwit the schemes of the wicked. This is truly a time for spiritual warfare, and intercessors must not come off the wall in this hour! Pray that no foreign government, terrorist organization or demonic principality will use Obama as a tool. We must stand strong against the spirit of antichrist that promotes dictatorship, persecution of Christians and hostility toward Israel.

9. Pray that Obama’s door will remain open to the church:
The loudest voices of secular culture—from Bill Maher in Hollywood to atheists in academia—would be happy if religion were removed from public life. Pray that Obama, who claims to have a personal faith in Jesus Christ, will unapologetically welcome Christian leaders into his company and seek their counsel. And pray that false religious leaders (who claim to know Christ but deny His power) will not have his ear.

10. Pray that our nation will enjoy God’s peace and blessing during the Obama administration:
The apostle Paul instructed early believers to pray for all in authority “so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity” (1 Tim. 2:2, NASB). God’s will is for America to experience peace and prosperity so that we can continue to export the gospel to the nations. This must happen whether a Democrat or a Republican is in the White House. As we cry out for God’s mercy on our wayward nation, pray that He will allow us to be a light to the world as we finance global missions, feed and heal the world’s poor and share Christ’s love at home and abroad.

And may our Lord continue to reign over our nation and our hearts ! God Bless America.

Saturday, November 08, 2008

its Saturday

Today is the first of three days off in a row. This afternoon we will be heading to Norcross for our first Basset Bash and Waddle. There should be close to 100 bassets and family and should be a fun time raising money for the basset waddle.

Then, we are off to the Fickle Pickle in Roswell for the blog party hosted by Whittaker Woman and there are some neat people coming. i have been checking out the blogs and cant wait to meet everyone.

I do think I am coming down with the first cough/sore throat of the year and hoping it doesn't go any farther.

I love the fall. I am looking forward to playing my Christmas music soon. Now i have heard some by accident (the radio, the mall) but for me to play the music is almost ceremonial. I have to pick out just the right cd and play it at the right time to enjoy. its usually an Amy Grant cd but we might change it up this year.

so what is your favorite Christmas cd and when do you start playing it?

Thursday, November 06, 2008

dieting

Are any of you presently doing a specific diet or just eating healthy? just wondering!!!!

very last political post ever

thanks for your comments below. not much going on here except we have a busy weekend ahead check out Michael's blog for details.

for the 3rd election in a row, i worked all night. i do not want to do that again. i didn't get the chance to watch all of the speeches but had some great discussions with my patient parents.
now its time to pray. not complain. but pray. pray for our future president. pray for his family and the people he chooses to surround himself with.. pray that those who are disappointed in the outcome will come to grips with the fact that he is our president and that we need to come together as Americans. Complaining and starting debates will only drive our country apart. i am not saying you shouldn't voice your opinion or stand up for the truth, but there is away to do it ( respectfully would help)and i am reading so many blog posts that are passionate about the new president both in a negative and positive way.

I will be honest. I was not an Obama supporter. I still am fearful that we elected a man with no military experience or foreign policy experience as our country's President in the middle of a war. I do not want to fear. I had other issues with both candidates but this was a big one for me. thank goodness this is my last political post..

The election is over. It is time to pray. God wants us to pray and turn to Him. Our hope should not be in one man, but to the One who created every man.

It will be sweet to see children in the White House again.

Monday, November 03, 2008

november is national adoption ,month

has adoption touched your life or someone you love?

Sunday, November 02, 2008

fasting

Its Sunday. Hoping to spend some time in prayer tomorrow and will possibly vote if early voting is still going on.
ok, what did your kids dress up as for Halloween?
michael has question regarding fasting. help him out at www.valtool.blogspot.com with your knowledge..

amy

vote and pray

I probably don't need to remind you to go vote on tuesday, but please also pray. Regardless of who wins, our country is in trouble and our new President has a LOT of important decisions to make..and i hope that who ever wins, we can all respect his position

Check out Carlos's blog for a great post about prayer here.

I just keep thinking that our country has turned away from God and instead of following him, we choose to do things that make ourselves comfortable and happy.

People have gotten mean over this. When you tell someone who yousupport, a lot of times they quickly tell you why you shouldn't vote for your choice. It's nice to see people passionate though, regardless of who they support.

I do agree with my husband that McCain is not Bush and that i hope are not voting for Obama simply because they do not want another 4 years of Bush. I hope they are voting for him because they believe that his experience,morals. ideas, and his behavior in the past make him the best man for our country's President.

I do like both candidates. I do not like Obama's economy solution ideas at all but is that a reason not to vote for him? i have been reading several blogs with blogs with titles " I'm a Republican voting democrat ' or " I'm a christian voting Democrat'. I want to vote for the right man. I want to vote for the guy that share the same morals that I do because i think that will be how he runs our country.

Enough political talk. I really don't know enough to argue. these are just my thoughts.